Why is my body not fertile?
I’m going to suggest that a deep level of honesty is necessary to answer that question.
I’m also going to suggest that at any given moment most of us are not prepared to be that honest, and yet I can tell you with confidence that shift happens the moment we are courageous enough to be honest about what ‘actually is’.
Why am I not fertile?
The most reasonable high-level answer is that question is – because you have been avoiding the truth about yourself for so long now your body is confused and thus unable to conduct the internal orchestra properly.
It feels judgemental doesn’t it! The implications of it are hard to stomach.
“What? – you’re saying that I’ve been lying to myself all these years?”
Maybe lying is too strong a term – ‘avoiding the truth’ is a more accurate way to put it.
But you see, the thing is we ALL do this – that’s why all have problems. But c’mon, think about it – do you really believe you’ve never made mistakes? Does anyone seriously believe that they never avoid the truth?
If fertility is your problem, then time is of the essence. You need a plan to get from where you are to where you want to be, and this means you must first accept where you are, it also might mean admitting to yourself that you don’t know how to get to the place you want to be.
The truth is your most powerful ally here and failing to accept that is why so many people never engage the journey properly. Internet fertility forums are full of such people talking about this or that drug and how best to use it, or this or that supplement and how good or bad it was for them, but precious few ever embrace the truth.
The truth is we find ourselves with the problems we have due to ‘The Way We Are’, and we can’t fix those problems if we remain the same. We must change – that’s life, that’s the truth, it’s also inevitable – so why not embrace it!