I’m always tweaking my elevator message to better answer the question – So what do you do?
I think I have the most unusual job title of anyone I know – I’m a Natural Fertility Consultant, I Help Couples Find Natural Solutions to Infertility.
But only a precious few people really get this, and that’s usually because they are smack in the middle of the storm already.
If my job title makes sense to you, and you are interested in working with me, then here’s some things I can and can’t do for you:
- The willingness is up to you. I can guide you through the unfamiliar territory of infertility in search of a solution, but I can’t take you where you don’t want to go.
- Everybody is held back by something. I can help you see the truth of the situation clearly so you know what needs to be done but I can’t make you overcome the internal resistance that stops you.
- It’s up to you. I can help you take responsibility for solving the problem, and hold the line with you as you search, but only you can do the work of changing yourself.
- Your journey is unique. I can advise you on the many available options and help you make the best decisions in the limited time available, but I can’t tell you from the start what they are going to be.
The journey involves changing lifelong habits in order to achieve a goal that is bigger than the chains that hold you back. It can be long, it can be confusing, it can be full of setbacks, it can be scary, and sometimes people give up. I never do!