The Carrots We Want and The Sticks We Need

One of the things I’ve learned as a therapist is that most of us spend the prime of our lives without the benefit of having two key factors operating in our favour: the carrot of a worthy goal that draws us forward with hope liberating the energy to stretch ourselves and grow by overcoming obstacles […]

Fear & Familiarity -The Endless Loops of Our Lives

Ever watched “The Endless” – it’s a great film, whacked out for sure, but full of thought-provoking metaphors about life. There’s a line in it I really resonate with – “The oldest and strongest emotion of mankind is fear, and the oldest and strongest kind of fear is fear of the unknown” I believe therapists […]

How The Criticism Diet Helps Fertility

If a child lives with criticism they learn to criticise…. In that case, I reckon we were all criticised as kids because we all criticise someone for something. Like the proverbial fish unaware of the water they swim in, humans mostly seem unaware of how deeply ingrained criticism is in us.  It happens so regularly […]

Imagine Life With Your Baby!

You may want a child with all your heart, but a simple kink in your subconscious can prevent you from having one. Infertility is always due to ‘problems in biology’, and the solution always involves untangling the problems so that biology can correct itself and come back to balance – easier said than done for […]